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"My
good fortune at Dr. Gupta's Clinic"
After a series of failed protocols in Beverly Hills, my wife and I
learned our only chance for a baby was with a donor egg and
surrogate mother. Our house (mortgaged to the hilt already due to
past fertility treatments) would not yield the 100,000 dollars we
needed to pay an egg donor and surrogate in California. We were
devastated. We had been married for 8 years. If you are reading
this you probably understand how desperately we wanted to start a
family.
We are both blue eyed white couple and my wife wanted a caucasian
baby that would look like her--so when she told me about India, I
didn't get it. But I knesw that I did not want to adopt, I wanted
my own genetic offspring.
My wife explained that in Northern India, New Delhi, there are
donors from Russia. She showed me that there is also an excellent
fast protocol at IVF Delhi, that has a high success rate.
Because my hopes had been dashed so much in the past, I was
doubtfull.
But as I did more research, I realized that I had always wanted to
go to India anyway, so I rationalized it, thinking I could just
have a holiday and leave some frozen sperm samples behind. What
happens happens. No pressure! (of course I was secretly hoping to
be matched!)
But when I arrived and met Dr. Anoop Gupta and Dr. Alka Gupta, my
heart swelled up. They took me in like a lost cousin. I managed to
find a beautiful 23 year old donor my second day in New Delhi. And
Dr. Gupta found a surrogate for me who is on the same cycle! Both
beatiful ladies who have checked out. So after just 6 days
in New Delhi, we have started our stim protocol. And I feel truly
blessed to have everything come together so quickly. In the United
States, we would pay the 10,000$ agency fees and wait for months
with no movement. At the Gupta Clinic, things move at a steady
deliberate pace and they are always looking for ways to make it
easier. Plus, the economic savings are huge. It will mean we will
have savings to send our child to a good college.
It is the human touch of the Gupta organization that causes people
to come
to this clinic. Stress is the enemy of fertility--and at the Gupta
clinic, everyone is happy, smiling, loving just being alive,
loving what they do. It is like being in a yoga studio where
everyone is in tune with the cycles of life. You will be amazed at
the love that you will find here.
The people waiting in the clinic are from all over the world: USA,
Canada, Pakistan, Uzbekistan, Russia, Europe. All I can tell you
is trust your heart. Like you, I had some doubts before I flew
over. But if India is an option for you, I strongly recommend the
Delhi IVF and Fertility clinic. Just go there find a nice place to
stay near the clinic (I recommend the Intercontinental The Grand
if you can afford it). It is a beautiful clinic.
Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions
about IVF Delhi
and Dr. Alka and Anoop Gupta. I live in California, my cell number
is 310
435 3618. My email is 'spurg@earthlink.net'
Good luck and God Bless!
Edward
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